The source where my
comment was originally written was created by Brandy Sacco. Brandy's associated
blog is Family-Genealogy, http://ourfamilyology.blogspot.com/, and her
company is http://www.family-genealogy.com/.
I am not advertising or endorsing her blog or her company, although anyone is
free to look at Brandy’s blog and company.
I weighed in on the
topic as I had a personal experience to share about a videotaping of my aunt in
her assisted living residence after she began to develop mild symptoms of
dementia.
This is what I shared:
"One example about
recording my aunt's memories of her immediate family while growing up is that
my daughter and I videotaped her after she moved out of her home and into a
retirement facility. We could tell that dementia had begun, due to receptiveness
in her speaking and being able to compare her thoughts and speaking to her
younger sister's dementia, my mother, who had begun dementia and Alzheimer's at
an earlier age.
We engaged her in conversation
and asked certain questions that we wanted to hear her answers about gaps where
we did not have documentation about our ancestors. I appreciated my aunt's
conversation, friendliness, and that we were able to put her at ease during the
videotaping.
After the videotaping I
was able to piece details together better about what she told us and where we
were lacking documentation.
Documents are a better
record of a person's life. Family conversations are valuable to use where
documentation has not been possible to give a familial flavor to the recordee's
perspective of events from their early life. In my family's tendency to begin
dementia at some point in their later years, I have found that while the more
recent memory is reduced or nonexistent, earlier memories in life are easier
for my older relatives to retain and share.
I have not been able to
prove the that my mother believed that some of her ancestors fought at the
Texas Battle of San Jacinto with Sam Houston,. Yes, there were some soldiers
there with the same last surname as my mother's maiden name, but I have found
no relative connection.
It makes an interesting
story, but since the Texas Battle of San Jacinto with Sam Houston is well
documented with each soldier's name, rank, unit, where he enlisted, and
position on the battlefield, I feel confident that someone started that story
in the family and it continued down to my mother's generation. This is a story
I must ignore when writing the best, true history of my family.”
Another good story,
surely fiction, is the one that was related to me by a second cousin that my
northern Floridian grandmother's father taught my grandmother and her older
sister how to ride on the backs of alligators. The story was told at family
reunions by my grandfather. It obviously sounded great, and knowing my
grandfather, he received great joy and glee from telling it, as he looked at
the surprised looks of other relatives with whom he shared this story. Talk
about exaggeration! In any event, this story also did not become a fact in my
family history.
I follow as closely as
possible the good standards set by leading genealogists, genealogy subscription
programs and software, especially those of Elizabeth Shown Mills in her book
editions of "Evidence Explained:..." and "Evidence:...".
"As an aside, I
subscribe to a commercial online genealogy program, but keep it private, and
not public, as many do, so I can diminish the possibility of someone plagiarizing
my information. I also use a paid genealogy software program."
I hope that other
family members and geneabloggers will read this post and add your comments
about your opinions about Source Citations and Recorded Sources. It will help
to read your opinions and carry this conversation forward.
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